Gone are the days of discrimination- The days of discrimination against same sex couples is definitely something of the past. Cruise liners have decided to follow the trend by catering specifically for either or both gay and lesbian cruises. No matter what size the liner from small deluxe to large luxury you are guaranteed to find homosexual singles, couples and families on board, each varying in their sexual preference approach, from in-your-face to discreet, depending entirely of course on their personalities.
Hetero mingling- Most homosexuals prefer ordinary cruises to all gay cruises. This can be attributed to the fact that all gay cruises are very limited in terms of itineraries, very high premiums of between 20-40 percent are payable and ships may only sail a couple of times a year which forces homosexuals to plan their trips accordingly. Just like heterosexuals, homosexuals love the luxury of choice and to meet people who are hetero. Friendship should definitely not be linked to sexual orientation. It may be difficult for ordinary cruise shipmates and staff to handle awkward situations. It is however important not allow good spirits to be dampened by such moment or events here and there.
Homo groups- A couple of mixed liners have introduced Gay Groups onboard their ships. These groups offer super rates when compared to all homo liners and anonymity while making new same-sex friends and bonding.
All gay cruises- With the luxury of choice and cruise liners following latest trends, gays and lesbians are now given a chance to skip mixed cruises and to opt for all homosexual cruises. Bonding on these cruises are more intense, parties are harder and new gay friends made easily.
Gay or Lesbian packages- Gay or Lesbian cruise packages may be offered by ordinary travel agencies or focused homosexual cruise agencies. Its recommended that you rather opt for focused cruise agencies as they are more likely to be in tune with your needs. The packages may cost significantly more than ordinary mainstream packages, however these packages include many extra’s in the form of special activities, homo-themed parties and excursions, homosexual entertainers and costume parties to mention but a few.
Online research and resources- The internet has a wealth of information on gay and lesbian travels as well as packages, to fall within the taste of even the fussiest homosexual single or couple. Online budget estimators make calculation of the perfect package quick and easy with the mere click of a mouse. Various homo focused websites give listings on destinations and available accommodation. Its recommended that you sneak a peek at gay bars and get-togethers in the area you are planning to visit.
Popular homosexual charters- It is recommended that guys try Atlantis Events, RSVP Vacations and Pied Piper Travel and girls’ Olivia charters for their same-sex cruising needs. These charters have endless lists of scheduled cruises throughout the year with voyages to destination such as Greek Islands, Hawaii, Caribbean, Mexico and Alaska. It is very important to note that cruises self are not only homosexual welcoming but entertainment is also focused on gay or lesbian preferences.
Homosexual friendly ports- A very important factor to consider when choosing an ordinary cruise instead of a gay or lesbian specific cruise is the fact that some ship port have a very bad reputation of being severely homophobic. These destinations include Turkey, Middle East, Jamaica and Grand Cayman Islands. It is especially the Governments of Islamic countries and Caribbean Islands who reject the homosexual lifestyle. Homo-only cruises totally avoid these ports on cruise schedules.
Gay etiquette- Please remember that these suggestions on gay etiquette only apply to mixed cruises and not all gay or lesbian voyages. Its recommended that drag outfits such as wigs and sequence are left at home. Crew member flirting and sex is a big no-no. Any staff caught in cabins without proper explanation or valid reason will be fired on the spot, with exceptions on meetings during port visits. Kissing and hugging is limited to greetings and celebrations. Hand holding is allowed anytime. Disco as well as slow same-sex dancing is allowed. Same-sex couples are welcome to pose affectionately as much as they want to for close-up onboard photo’s.
Dress codes- The general dress code on your cruise will be casual. However its important to keep in mind that shorts, t-shirts and flip flops are prohibited in the dining rooms. Smaller ships have very few formal nights, so it will be recommended that you pack only one set formal evening attire.





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